Full etymology treatment on flock (your instinct about its baggage was right), the alternatives, and why pod is the good answer.
Here's the twist: flock originally meant a company of people — a band or troop. Only in Middle English did it specialize onto animals (sheep, then birds). So the human sense is the older one — we didn't borrow it from sheep; sheep borrowed it from us.
The "congregation" sense — a pastor's flock — arrives ~1200s from the Church's shepherd metaphor (Latin pastor = shepherd; the faithful as sheep to be led).
The negative charge is all downstream of the sheep association: "sheeple," herd mentality, "following the flock," passive conformity — plus the paternalism of the religious flock (a passive congregation led by a shepherd). So "flock" quietly says: led, passive, undifferentiated, needs a shepherd. Exactly the vibe a co-regulation community wants to avoid — your people are agents, not sheep.
| group | Neutral but cold — no warmth, no image, forgettable. |
| gang | Loyal + energetic, but crime/threat baggage. |
| tribe | Deep belonging, but appropriation concerns + "tribalism" (us-vs-them). |
| clan | Kinship + loyalty, but insular/exclusive + specific cultural baggage. |
| pod | The winner — see below. |
You spotted the grammar exactly: herd is the action (to tend), flock is the collective noun for sheep. Keep the split clean in DESA:
• Shepherd = the role (one who tends, with care). • to herd = the verb (the tending). • pod = the people (a small cooperative unit).
So a Shepherd tends a pod. Yes, it gently mixes metaphors (orca pods don't have shepherds) — but that's a feature: you keep "shepherd" for its warmth of care while dropping "flock" and its sheep. Nobody in the room is livestock; they're a pod.
This is exactly the kind of word-story Lingui (run by Cody) surfaces in-app — "did you know your pod is named for orcas?" Ready to lock pod as the group unit (home pod ~5, events made of pods). — Lingui / Designee · July 12